f****d up day.

[Francie, 2,760]

People say its selfish an cowardly an in a way it is,but the mind is a strange one,iv seen good strong men with everything to live for just loose it one day over a minor medical problem,he extrapolated it to a major thing an he was ready to kill himself over it,was mad just like a switch had turned off in his head,barely responsive to me or his family,his mind was racing constantly,couldn't sleep,etc he's gran now tho thank God

[Bangersanmash 4,910]

6 hours ago, WILF said:

So, let’s get this straight, he was going to let his wife and kids find him dead at home ? 
No mate……just f***ing no ! 

 

2 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

It's a cowards way out pal...

You can't say that your not in their shoes. You tell me with what youths of today are seeing. Not the c**ts taking drugs. f**k them. That's their own doing in my opinion. But these that are working hard or some that are just paying off student loans. Nothing to show at the end but debts up to the rafters. The government have a lot to answer for. But can give millions away to some foreign muck. But make the British youths of today pay for a better education and skills. 

Edited Tuesday at 14:50 by Bangersanmash

[Chid 6,772]

4 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

It's a cowards way out pal...

I think you don't really know anything on the subject of suicide.. especially when it's done due to depression.

[mel b 3,528]

4 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

It's a cowards way out pal...

This is exactly how I used to see it dc , but life experience has changed my view on things drastically. 

The way I see things now , is , just how bad must the problems seem to a person that commits suicide, for them to feel that killing themselves,  is better than facing the problems.

Thats not taking anything away from the pain that it would cause their loved ones , it must be truly devastating for them , but for someone to take their own life,  things must seem impossible to deal with.

Mental illness is a whole different thing . You just can't judge them by any reasonable standard.

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[Daniel cain 48,373]

17 hours ago, Chid said:

I think you don't really know anything on the subject of suicide.. especially when it's done due to depression.

Shut up you soft cnut,I've 

 

19 hours ago, Bangersanmash said:

 

You can't say that your not in their shoes. You tell me with what youths of today are seeing. Not the c**ts taking drugs. f**k them. That's their own doing in my opinion. But these that are working hard or some that are just paying off student loans. Nothing to show at the end but debts up to the rafters. The government have a lot to answer for. But can give millions away to some foreign muck. But make the British youths of today pay for a better education and skills. 

You know f**k all about me,my up bringing,what I've seen or done....I've seen enough dead bodies,from suicides,murders , RTA 's etc...i cut down a young girl from a tree around 10 years back,was out walking the dogs and had a 5 yr old with me...will of been posted on here...I don't give a f**k what folks say,taking your own life,and leaving behind loved ones.... makes you a cnut in my book....just look at your mate,had everything and left a note,and tried topping himself where his poor family would find him... someone wants to sit the clown down,and give him a f***ing slap... Big cup of man the f**k up....anyone who gets themselves in dept for education,only has themselves to blame in my book,to lazy to work off the dept, because they feel so entitled there is always a way out of a situation...if your not some f***ing pussy...what sort of man does it and selfishly leaves his family to pick up the pieces? What's so f***ing hard about admitting you need help, medication etc?

[Chid 6,772]

2 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

Shut up you soft cnut,I've 

 

You know f**k all about me,my up bringing,what I've seen or done....I've seen enough dead bodies,from suicides,murders , RTA 's etc...i cut down a young girl from a tree around 10 years back,was out walking the dogs and had a 5 yr old with me...will of been posted on here...I don't give a f**k what folks say,taking your own life,and leaving behind loved ones.... makes you a cnut in my book....just look at your mate,had everything and left a note,and tried topping himself where his poor family would find him... someone wants to sit the clown down,and give him a f***ing slap... Big cup of man the f**k up....anyone who gets themselves in dept for education,only has themselves to blame in my book,to lazy to work off the dept, because they feel so entitled there is always a way out of a situation...if your not some f***ing pussy...what sort of man does it and selfishly leaves his family to pick up the pieces? What's so f***ing hard about admitting you need help, medication etc?

As I said not a clue .. don't know why I'm a soft c**t for pointing this out but

I have a friend who is seriously ill with mental health ... Talks openly about it (has a tiktok about it to try educate and help others ect), doesn't stop them getting the suicidal thoughts must of been in with the crisis team nearly a dozen times since Xmas .. but sure they must be a soft c**t to ..

[Daniel cain 48,373]

2 hours ago, Chid said:

As I said not a clue .. don't know why I'm a soft c**t for pointing this out but

I have a friend who is seriously ill with mental health ... Talks openly about it (has a tiktok about it to try educate and help others ect), doesn't stop them getting the suicidal thoughts must of been in with the crisis team nearly a dozen times since Xmas .. but sure they must be a soft c**t to ..

My my old girl been on antidepressants for over 30 yrs been sectioned etc,tried taking her own life,I now because I f***ing found her  3 times over the years  you prick....she lost her head when I went to prison at 15 yrs old...I know all about depression,I've pulled my mate out of a motor when he gassed himself in his garage at 21...I don't give a f**k what you or any cnut else says....it's a cowards way out,and for the weak minded,I'm entitled to my opinion just like you...I've never been one of life's victims....it's just not in me...I'd give you the shirt off my back...but if you can't help yourself,then I'll f**k you  off to the curb,you won't drag me down with you

[NEWKID 28,421]

It's just such a shit subject, and I bet we've all been affected by it...

Lost a 20 year old lad last year to suicide, worked with us for a couple of years with his Dad who I've worked with for over 20 years ..its completely destroyed his Dad, a great lump of man, great steel worker, tough old f****r, to see him cry everytime he tries to talk to me is devastating... there is nothing you can say to ease the pain, we've tried to help in many ways over the past year, but the upshot is his lad walked into a park with a length of electric cable in a rucksack and hung himself from a tree... what a thought of loneliness and desperation...f**k I can't imagine.. I sat Finley down the night it happened, and told him there was nothing we could not solve for him, every problem has an answer, never ever think there is anything me or your mum can't solve...but... imo it goes beyond normal thoughts, normal behaviour etc..we are animals our core instinct is to survive, the imbalance in the brain that makes someone kill themselves goes way beyond being a selfish c**t Imo..

I've watched first hand proper depression, its not nice and I know I'm lucky not to suffer from it, but just because my mind is strong I don't think shy less of someone who's mind is not, it's f***ing desperate tbh...

Last year we raised around £3k at the fishing comp for a local charity that helps with families bereavement from suicide, personally I lost 2 close people to suicide last year and 1 other 2 years ago... 2 of my best mates lost a parent each to it, lads I grew up with avd seen how it's affected them... f***ing awful all round. .

I hope your mate can get better physically and mentally bangers...

[Chid 6,772]

35 minutes ago, Daniel cain said:

My my old girl been on antidepressants for over 30 yrs been sectioned etc,tried taking her own life,I now because I f***ing found her  3 times over the years  you prick....she lost her head when I went to prison at 15 yrs old...I know all about depression,I've pulled my mate out of a motor when he gassed himself in his garage at 21...I don't give a f**k what you or any cnut else says....it's a cowards way out,and for the weak minded,I'm entitled to my opinion just like you...I've never been one of life's victims....it's just not in me...I'd give you the shirt off my back...but if you can't help yourself,then I'll f**k you  off to the curb,you won't drag me down with you

Don't know why your getting so worked up about stuff and calling people names it's the internet FFS .. everyone not gonna agree on everything... Still reckon you don't have a clue though as if you did you'd have a bit more compassion for the ones who really struggle with there mental health ..

[Bangersanmash 4,910]

8 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

Shut up you soft cnut,I've 

 

You know f**k all about me,my up bringing,what I've seen or done....I've seen enough dead bodies,from suicides,murders , RTA 's etc...i cut down a young girl from a tree around 10 years back,was out walking the dogs and had a 5 yr old with me...will of been posted on here...I don't give a f**k what folks say,taking your own life,and leaving behind loved ones.... makes you a cnut in my book....just look at your mate,had everything and left a note,and tried topping himself where his poor family would find him... someone wants to sit the clown down,and give him a f***ing slap... Big cup of man the f**k up....anyone who gets themselves in dept for education,only has themselves to blame in my book,to lazy to work off the dept, because they feel so entitled there is always a way out of a situation...if your not some f***ing pussy...what sort of man does it and selfishly leaves his family to pick up the pieces? What's so f***ing hard about admitting you need help, medication etc?

Money means f**k all when your in that dark place. 

[fireman 11,364]

3 hours ago, Daniel cain said:

My my old girl been on antidepressants for over 30 yrs been sectioned etc,tried taking her own life,I now because I f***ing found her  3 times over the years  you prick....she lost her head when I went to prison at 15 yrs old...I know all about depression,I've pulled my mate out of a motor when he gassed himself in his garage at 21...I don't give a f**k what you or any cnut else says....it's a cowards way out,and for the weak minded,I'm entitled to my opinion just like you...I've never been one of life's victims....it's just not in me...I'd give you the shirt off my back...but if you can't help yourself,then I'll f**k you  off to the curb,you won't drag me down with you

That's a shit story bud for sure and feel for you mate i really do,  did you talk to any of them as to why they were trying or had tried?..

[Bangersanmash 4,910]

2 hours ago, Chid said:

Don't know why your getting so worked up about stuff and calling people names it's the internet FFS .. everyone not gonna agree on everything... Still reckon you don't have a clue though as if you did you'd have a bit more compassion for the ones who really struggle with there mental health ..

I've had two cousins kill themselves. One because something happened to him when younger. f****d with his head most of his life. Was down local golf links and some mucky c**t did something to him and two of his close friends. Be friended him. Was in his late 30s when he hung himself. My other cousin killed herself because her partner brainwashed her to go with him. Both found in the garage in motor with car fumes. Her grandma wondered why her hosepipe was on the floor in the outer house. Shed cut some off the b*****d and taken it to their flat. They even had the dog in the car. Now I was mad because to me she was selfish because she was the only child my auntie had. Broke her. Lovely woman too. At the time I was in jail. Couldn't even go to her funeral. My parents came to see me. At the time said " We've some bad news. Am thinking I'm not getting that 40 odd day bail shit. Where if they don't have papers at court you get out. Wish it wouldn't of been that. Id of done life for her to be here with my auntie. But was that they told me. Hit me like a f***ing train. Only had a letter week before saying can't wait to see you. Will go up town for a few drinks all of us. Crazy from a letter fine one week to next week that news. 

[WataWalloper 3,353]

What a morbid depressing thread ffs, I’m out haha