I don't get it. While do parents allow there kids to make the rules? Doesn't make sense to me. All this they need to live up to what there pals do, aye, if they ball. Just like dogs, children need to know the boundaries and will push them constantly but they need them to feel loved, become balanced etc. as socks says, 14, 16, 18, 21, while they live under the roof your paying for, they need to respect your in charge. But the rules should be there al the time, you can't let them away with stuff then decide no, you can't do that any more when it suits. Letting a kid stay upto all hours on Facebo