Its different for girls mooch,I understand that.Boys are different,my two were and are travellers and adventurous,I knew and always encouraged them to fly the nest.Ones in the states now,the other lives thousands of miles from where he was born but I always tell him if he has any sense he will come over here.
I paid both their uni studies,rented them an apartment,gave them allowances,they finished university with clean slates owing no student loans,but I always told them it's performance related pay,you f**k up that's it,the cash stops.Kids eh.