I see your point, however my wife is very clean around the house, we both are.
Works hard, will get up in the mornings (06:00) to walk dogs when im not around, feeds the poultry, collect eggs, cook, wash clothes and still go to work. We both help each other and still have a social life together.
No she's not beside me.........
We're a team, and i think this is where a lot of todays relationships break down. No honesty, no team work, no trust, no communication, no caring for each other, no space for each other and more important no PROTECTION used!