alright mate, when you see police demand they trace the call, in fact call there bluff say if they dont your goin to your m.p, papers ect, nail this feckin wanker legally first, then when you know who he is the ball is in your court to do what you feel you need to do when it suits you...if you do anythin rashly (though you probably want to castrate him, and rightly so) it will be you and your son who suffers twice..... your lad not sayin anythin and stayin in his room is a worry mate... try tellin him any problems in life you and him sort together as father and son .... i dont know weather im