csa

[MATTI 34]

Before the CSA was on the go my parent's split up and he took off down country with his fancy bit leaving my mother to look after my sister and me on her own, talk about on the bone's of your arse. The only reason i was allowed a ferret was so we had rabbit a couple of time's a week, our clothe's were like rag's,(this was the 's not just after the war) meanwhile gigilo and his bint were liveing like royalty. I,m not after sympathy or anything, and i don't know the circumstance's of each case but if your man enough to have kid's be man enough to pay for them,

[Guest Ditch_Shitter]

if your man enough to have kid's be man enough to pay for them,

 

 

Well said, mate!

 

It was written on the back of the shit house door, in my old local in Pompey: " Child Support; The f*cking ye get for the f*cking ye got. "

 

 

Ditch Shitter; Seeking a vasectomy from 18 years old. Finally allowed one at 23. " Why? " asked the GP. " Because I don't consider this anything like a fit world to ever risk bringing a child into! ". Said I. She signed my chit with a flourish. Off to the hospital I went .....

[Irish Lurcher 1,013]

Dip your wick and ya must pay for the oil. Simple as.

[Guest nitevision]

Dip your wick and ya must pay for the oil. Simple as.

thats a pretty good way of suming it up fella,trouble is the price of the oil was set way beyond my means,i have no problem paying towards the upbringin of my kids,just not to keen on payin for nites out etc,wich is where my hard earned was goin.

[andy mecca 5]

i dont mind paying but not when i paid her direct for years she worked on the fiddle and claimed the benefits then they sting me for a feckin ridiculous amount because they changed there system and have lost records and my son is now 17 so shove yer smart dip your wick reply's

[Guest nitevision]

they are pretty good at loosin them records.

[mole trapper 1,703]

they are pretty good at loosin them records.

 

They are pretty fackin good at finding new ones to, as i just found out.

[ferret15 0]

OK this is from a females point of view my mum and dad divorced when i was seven i had to live with my dad after a year as my mums health was relay bad she was to sick to work and lived on incapacity benefit she was well enough to return to work after retraining as a receptionist after previously working as a farmer in 1990 upon returning to work she made an arrangement with my dad to pay 50 quid a week for me the csa decided that they wanted the money and that they wanted 200 quid she was earning 250 she sold her jewelry, furniture and did masses of over time just to make ends meet she was so hard up and depressed about the whole thing that the local paper did a front page story on her with the headline csa pushes mum to the brink of suicide the Cs drooped the case instantly saying they had made a mistake. so get your local paper to do a story it might work for you to

 

there are a lot of men out there that run from there kids and never pay for them but i believe that theses so called men are untraceable each time the csa catches up with them they just move.

the majority of the people the csa target if left to there own devices would come to an arrangement with there ex partners that truly benefited the kids

in my opinion as a mum wife and daughter is the CSA ARE A BUNCH OF WANKERS

 

i feel for you all i know how depressing it can be and i cant blame you for being pissed off when people assume you have run out on your kids

[andy mecca 5]

i dont mind paying anything but when ive got a wedding in 3 weeks and stuff still to pay for and they take 1755 quid without any f****n warning or even an income and expenditure form to see what i need to live on is really taking the piss and some littlle f****n amoeba telling you "well sir child maintenance is a priority" its a good job this office is in falkirk because the way i feel i would be driving there and setting f*****g fire to there cars or the f*****g building they have turned my life upside down what a f*****g pack of c**ts if i ever meet this twat who was on the phone at falkirk i can guarantee he will be on the sick for, a few weeks after the battering i'll give him if he manages to scrape through

[J Darcy 5,871]

Just a word of advice if you pay your ex-spouse directly..... pay them with a cheque and not cash.....that way you can always prove you have paid.... otherwise...your f*cked!!!

[jultaylor1972 2]

Just a word of advice if you pay your ex-spouse directly..... pay them with a cheque and not cash.....that way you can always prove you have paid.... otherwise...your f*cked!!!

Thats sound advice there.

[Kay 3,709]

When my first husband buggered off nearly 15 yrs ago we agreed a sum of 20.00 per week paid in cash & he would either buy my sons school shoes or coat when he needed them, that wored fine untill he left school & no longer needed any spport .

 

But as i had to claim family credit as it was called then to toip my wages up i started to get letters from the CSA saying my ex husband had to pay hundreds of pounds, i wrote to them saying that i was receiving a regular payment & they left it at that, i did point out that i didnt want them involved

[Guest craftycarper]

I am always worrying that i will get a letter from the csa through the door saying they have reviewed my earnings and are gonna ask for a increase in payments. I divorced in 95 and have 3 kids, the agreement we came to with the csa's blessing was that i pay £60 a week and that i could pay it cash to her each week providing she signed a letter agreeing to this. On top of this myself and my mother have always bought all their clothes, shoes and uniforms and i have paid for school trips and most other things they have wanted over the years. Bearing in mind the kids also live with me half of the week as well when i am off shift. Even when she goes abroad on her hols i have taken the time off as i have the kids, it pees me off that the day [bANNED TEXT] she flies off i give her her weekly money and not once has she ever said don't worry about it you have got them for 7 nights keep it for food etc Anyhow she threw my eldest out over a year ago and he now lives with me (not her fault) he is an arse very light fingered and you have to lock everything up from him but thats another story. I said to her that the £60 would be going down to £40..not a very happy bunny...but to me it's fair three children £60..two £40 you don't have to have a degree in maths to work out the logic in it. This was done without informing the csa, didn't see the need in it although it might cause problem in the near future but we will see, and i might also add that i did not even claim against her for having him with me, she was also claiming his child benefit when he lived with me for the first few months and she was a bit put out handing this over when i realised that i should have been claiming it instead and what she was doing was fraud, but i never reported it just let her hand it over once a month. Now my other boy has just left school, i have rung the csa about the money and providing he does not go into further education then i can stop paying for him on 1st september as apparently that is when he is no longer on the education systems books...roll on september i say ..money will be going down again.. I don't think she has done to badly out of it, the last few years the kids come and go as they wish with their own keys, sometimes they have stayed over for several days or more but she has still recieved the same money each week....