foxfan 479 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 Could over stimulation in formative years through TV, console games etc play a part ? There seems to be a push to get kids onto medication at an ever earlier age, good buisness for the big pharma corporations. Agree with Blan about the vaccinations. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 shit stop you lot @ marvin ,it is frustrating an can lead to some big rows,we have split up once before. it doesnt help that we as parents know whats right but the lea an the respite givers that have got the "degrees" an done a course think they know whats best ie schools. Still there though dude, utmost respect. And gaining a degree is one thing but living the life is another. No two ways about it, any bloke who takes on another's child is a diamond, but to take on two with difficulties and hang on in there, well like i say you deserve a medal in my eye's dude :victory: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
poacher3161 1,766 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 One things for sure any kids who have autisum and have the misfortune to have bad parents dont stand a chance and i dont know if its just me but autisum seems more common now than it did 40 years ago. I believe autism shares all the same symptoms of mercury poisoning and until recently all our jabs where mercury based. My cousins got aspergers and he gets on fine in school,everyone likes him because he's so crazy and doesn't care what anyone thinks. having said that he's a danger to himself and those around him. Although we are told routine child vaccines have nothing to do with the rise in this condition i for one do not believe so. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 Could over stimulation in formative years through TV, console games etc play a part ? I believe so, especially when non-age appropriate games are given to youngsters, myself and my partner gave my stepson a Nintendo DS for christmas as he loves playing on his cousins console, we now have to regulate his time on it as he quickly becomes a zombie, wont communicate whilst on it and wants it 24-7. It is evident if he has had too long a time on it as he zones out and lacks concentration throughout the day, he now has to earn his time on it with good behaviour. Strict ? maybe but we see it as giving the lad a fair chance of learning social interaction. How many children,teens and twenty somethings have lost the ability to talk with anything more than a grunt, unless given a keyboard or moblie phone. It does seem that parenting has been replaced with digital baby sitters. Scary thing is some parents see their actions as impeccable "because my child has the newest form of console", when in reality they are programming or even de-programming their offspring, condemning them to an existence without empathic ability. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nitestalker 28 209 Posted February 14, 2012 Report Share Posted February 14, 2012 What are your main worries regarding comprehensive schools dude with his autisim, i suppose you have to meet him to be honest just abit worried he'll get bullied. Luckily when he starts his big brother will be in year 11. i feeling the same myself my 3 year old son has autisum is in a special pre school 2 days a week and in normal play group 1 day to help him mix and interact with other kids he has come a long way so far but its a constant job to get him to interact and work with you can drift off into his own world and go off to a corner to play by himself which is not wat you want just keep putting the work and time in and hopefully it pays off in the end anyone who wud bully any 1 wit special needs are jus the lowest of the low and passed any words atb Quote Link to post Share on other sites
poacher3161 1,766 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 Just by the imput on this site reafirms my opinion that this condition seems more common now days.IMHO questions need to be asked and genuine answers need to be answerd by those who realy know the truth. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 Just by the imput on this site reafirms my opinion that this condition seems more common now days.IMHO questions need to be asked and genuine answers need to be answerd by those who realy know the truth. Just a little something else to consider poacher, food additives/preservatives, could they be linked to any rises such as autism/asergers links have already been proven towards cancer's, but how many of these are truly needed and how many are allowed as part of a stealth culling system A bit off the wall i know but is it really so unthinkable Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 One things for sure any kids who have autisum and have the misfortune to have bad parents dont stand a chance and i dont know if its just me but autisum seems more common now than it did 40 years ago. I believe autism shares all the same symptoms of mercury poisoning and until recently all our jabs where mercury based. My cousins got aspergers and he gets on fine in school,everyone likes him because he's so crazy and doesn't care what anyone thinks. having said that he's a danger to himself and those around him. Your avatar made me smile as when i was first introduced to the asperger syndrome, one of the traits described to me was, the sufferer could walk into a cowboy brawl in a bar and not even realise the danger they could be in, once you know how an individual ticks, they can be amongst the best people you will ever meet. To be fair marvin your right pal, its just got annoying she even even got hold of my mobile number last year in which I had to change and lost 2 good jobs because of it then she started again pming me all the time its get alittle annoying. I shouldn't have made the thread however I was wrong. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 My hat is off to you fella, you have been man enough to accept you were wrong and that is an admirable trait in anyone, word to the wise though, keep check on who you give your number too, sort of cuts down on this sort of situation arising. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 My hat is off to you fella, you have been man enough to accept you were wrong and that is an admirable trait in anyone, word to the wise though, keep check on who you give your number too, sort of cuts down on this sort of situation arising. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 My hat is off to you fella, you have been man enough to accept you were wrong and that is an admirable trait in anyone, word to the wise though, keep check on who you give your number too, sort of cuts down on this sort of situation arising. Nothing new there, he does that atleast once a day............... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GrCh 856 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 My hat is off to you fella, you have been man enough to accept you were wrong and that is an admirable trait in anyone, word to the wise though, keep check on who you give your number too, sort of cuts down on this sort of situation arising. Nothing new there, he does that atleast once a day............... who put 10p in you pipe down.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
spade 224 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 My eldest (15) is ADHD and ASD and was diagnosed aged 4. His younger siblings are not affected. He has a full statement of educational special need and until last June was in mainstream school. Won't go into detail on here but wouldn't wish on my worst enemy what we went through with him. After a huge battle with LEA got him a place at a special school where he is doing really well. He wants a career in horticulture and are now having major hassle finding a suitable college for him. Mainstream colleges have to be seen to be inclusive so will say that they can meet needs so the LEA say he can go there but he is terrified at the thought of going back into a mainstream environment. Nearest special needs college offering a suitable course is over 100 miles away. Present government policies say that disabled kids shouldn't be excluded from mainstream schools but has gone so far that kids who are unable to cope in that environment are being placed there anyway and as such are being set up to fail. I would agree that there are those who use these conditions as an excuse for bad kids/bad parenting and this unfortunately has a negative effect on families who are genuinely affected by these conditions. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Millet 4,497 Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 It's deffinitely more common these day's ..when i was a youngen we never even heard of the word's Autism/Dyspraxia or Aspergers...you where rather normal or just plain thick and had to get on with it..when we hit the senior school the first year weeded the problem children out and they where moved to the speacial school's to deal with whatever problem's they had.. I have two cousin's with the problem's mentioned one of them with all the three that i have mentioned he is struggling for his age but get's along ok i suppose..my other cousen who is 19 studied at leed's university and got A level's in mathes and english and she is supposed to have autism..how do they work the varying degrees out..because she is far from thick.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Marvin 193 Posted February 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 http://www.patientcenters.com/autism/news/diag_tools.html#CARS Hope this helps Millet, this is the scale most frequently used to measure the differing poles of autism, I personally know of a lad with autism who is a qualified electrician and makes a mint as a designer for electrical circuitry. Wierd how someone the ignorant would write off as retarded could wipe the floor with us on any particular knowledgeable subject. Such is the individuality of the human form i guess 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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