It saddens me to say, but I have to agree with Bigthug87. My father in law and I joined a club back earlier this year. We got to know a good number of the members there, and although we found the majority of them to be very friendly and easy going, a substantial percentage were indeed full of their own self-importance. It seemed to me to be a trait associated with being on the committee (?). "My Precious!" .
It didn't really bother me, I just ignored them, but my father-in-law found them extremely condescending, and even felt humiliated at times. Long story short, we haven't been back. A