no your right, i have a daughter with an ex and 2 lads with my missus and i really couldnt ask for more with them, my partner has 2 kids that their dad never bothered with them and when he did he fcuked it up, big time.
where i do wish i did more is with my dad and his side, i get the odd text now and again see him once or twice every couple of months. he has 3 lads and 2 girls ageing somewhere between 11yrs - 30+yrs, and i've had chances to get to know 3 / 4 of them but always backed out due to not knowing if they are going in to it fully hearted then fcuking off again, i really havnt the