Not really arrogant mate, most people have a certain 'poison' that brings out the worst in them. Stella does it to me, as did the old 'white shite' cider. Since I've switched to plain old normal strength larger, I've been fine, and I've been able to enjoy a night on the drink, instead of waking up the next morning, wondering who I should apologise to first!
I avoid spirits cos i always become over playfull and can never remember anything about it the next day