You know something arry my own dad has never even met my kids his grandkids 8 n 6 due to a fall out that he had with my sister's husband 10 year ago which I got got in x hairs aswell, I went to see him 2 year ago after not seeing him for 6 or 7 years briefly saying he's got two cracking grandkids there that have never done anything wrong n have started to ask questions and he's also missing out he just said Luke my like is my wife rugby n holidays that's all I'm interested in n walked away, gutted for the boys I am as they deserve better than that so I take my hat off to grandads like you arry