f****d up day.

[Bangersanmash 4,880]

Well just been told by my sister that one of my pals from school has gone missing. Left a note at home which his old man's read to my sister an everyone who's gone searching for him doesn't look good. FFS. It's crazy how the mind works. Own home , brilliant job , wife , kids. Just shows you can have stability at home family life but not a stable mind. His phone last pinged up in local wood where he lives. He's diabetic too and hasn't got his meds. So thats another bad sign. Doesn't matter if you know the person or not. A wouldn't wish this kind of shit on no one. I've been there twice with two cousins. Just hope they find him okay. But think from what I've been told it's not looking good. I'm on my way home from work to help look for him. 

Edited 22 hours ago by Bangersanmash

[Bangersanmash 4,880]

Just had a phone call they've found him in his loft just conscious. So he's taken his car down near woods left his phone so that it pings up down there try knock family and friends of scent him being at home.  But the police searched his property first so very lucky that they've found him in the loft.  He's left his meds in car for his diabetes , so that he couldn't take it at home.  So that would have killed him. Just glad they've found him. Let's hope he gets the help he needs. 

Edited 22 hours ago by Bangersanmash

[mitre 226]

Just fingers crossed  

[Qbgrey 4,259]

Not good mate, the mind can certainly mess you up. Glad they found him on time

[WILF 49,636]

Accident or deliberate ?

[Bangersanmash 4,880]

58 minutes ago, WILF said:

Accident or deliberate ?

Deliberate mate. Said in note he left to his Dad. How can some body love me when a can't love myself. Strange how someone thinks they'll be better off not on this earth than being alone in life. My sister said he's been bad with gambling. 150 grand a year wage. House bought out right from what his nanna left him. Just shows money can't help you with your mind. 

[Bangersanmash 4,880]

1 hour ago, Qbgrey said:

Not good mate, the mind can certainly mess you up. Glad they found him on time

Hopefully his brain hasn't been starved of oxygen. My sister put a dampener on it saying that to me. 

[Seagull 287]

12 minutes ago, Bangersanmash said:

Hopefully his brain hasn't been starved of oxygen. My sister put a dampener on it saying that to me. 

It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines.

[Bangersanmash 4,880]

2 hours ago, Seagull said:

It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines.

Hopefully he'll be okay . That happened to a young lad in thorns park. Dog walker found him hanging in a tree. He's hung himself where somebody would see his body. f***ing crazy. That poor dog walker. Seeing a young teen do that. 

[WILF 49,636]

So, let’s get this straight, he was going to let his wife and kids find him dead at home ? 
No mate……just f***ing no ! 

[Daniel cain 48,296]

15 hours ago, Seagull said:

It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines.

My pal and his wife found their 17 yr old,he had done similar,over a couple of hundred pound drug debt,but in his own bedroom,they cut him down,but the damage was done finished my mate,he's a shadow of who he was.... committing suicide is a cnuts trick, and the most selfish thing you can do leaving your loved ones behind imo...

No parent should ever have to bury a child, before themselves, because the pain never leaves you, bad enough if they are genuinely ill,and your every hope is pinned on the doctors and medical professionals...but to take their own life and leave loved ones...I could never agree with....there's always someone worse off,and options ....