Bangersanmash 4,884 Posted yesterday at 13:14 Report Share Posted yesterday at 13:14 (edited) Well just been told by my sister that one of my pals from school has gone missing. Left a note at home which his old man's read to my sister an everyone who's gone searching for him doesn't look good. FFS. It's crazy how the mind works. Own home , brilliant job , wife , kids. Just shows you can have stability at home family life but not a stable mind. His phone last pinged up in local wood where he lives. He's diabetic too and hasn't got his meds. So thats another bad sign. Doesn't matter if you know the person or not. A wouldn't wish this kind of shit on no one. I've been there twice with two cousins. Just hope they find him okay. But think from what I've been told it's not looking good. I'm on my way home from work to help look for him. Edited yesterday at 13:15 by Bangersanmash 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bangersanmash 4,884 Posted yesterday at 13:22 Author Report Share Posted yesterday at 13:22 (edited) Just had a phone call they've found him in his loft just conscious. So he's taken his car down near woods left his phone so that it pings up down there try knock family and friends of scent him being at home. But the police searched his property first so very lucky that they've found him in the loft. He's left his meds in car for his diabetes , so that he couldn't take it at home. So that would have killed him. Just glad they've found him. Let's hope he gets the help he needs. Edited yesterday at 13:26 by Bangersanmash 10 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mitre 230 Posted yesterday at 14:30 Report Share Posted yesterday at 14:30 Just fingers crossed Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Qbgrey 4,259 Posted yesterday at 16:21 Report Share Posted yesterday at 16:21 Not good mate, the mind can certainly mess you up. Glad they found him on time 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 49,654 Posted yesterday at 16:25 Report Share Posted yesterday at 16:25 Accident or deliberate ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bangersanmash 4,884 Posted yesterday at 17:27 Author Report Share Posted yesterday at 17:27 58 minutes ago, WILF said: Accident or deliberate ? Deliberate mate. Said in note he left to his Dad. How can some body love me when a can't love myself. Strange how someone thinks they'll be better off not on this earth than being alone in life. My sister said he's been bad with gambling. 150 grand a year wage. House bought out right from what his nanna left him. Just shows money can't help you with your mind. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bangersanmash 4,884 Posted yesterday at 17:28 Author Report Share Posted yesterday at 17:28 1 hour ago, Qbgrey said: Not good mate, the mind can certainly mess you up. Glad they found him on time Hopefully his brain hasn't been starved of oxygen. My sister put a dampener on it saying that to me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Seagull 294 Posted yesterday at 17:44 Report Share Posted yesterday at 17:44 12 minutes ago, Bangersanmash said: Hopefully his brain hasn't been starved of oxygen. My sister put a dampener on it saying that to me. It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bangersanmash 4,884 Posted yesterday at 19:58 Author Report Share Posted yesterday at 19:58 2 hours ago, Seagull said: It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines. Hopefully he'll be okay . That happened to a young lad in thorns park. Dog walker found him hanging in a tree. He's hung himself where somebody would see his body. f***ing crazy. That poor dog walker. Seeing a young teen do that. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 49,654 Posted 14 hours ago Report Share Posted 14 hours ago So, let’s get this straight, he was going to let his wife and kids find him dead at home ? No mate……just f***ing no ! 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 48,313 Posted 13 hours ago Report Share Posted 13 hours ago 15 hours ago, Seagull said: It happened to my uncles mrs' lad. His dad was killed in an accident at work near Scunny years back and he never got over it. He must have been having some personal issues and decided enough was enough, he went in to the woods somewhere and hung himself, he phoned the police on where to find him and they did, barley alive, he was on life support for a day or two but the damage was done so they had to switch off the machines. My pal and his wife found their 17 yr old,he had done similar,over a couple of hundred pound drug debt,but in his own bedroom,they cut him down,but the damage was done finished my mate,he's a shadow of who he was.... committing suicide is a cnuts trick, and the most selfish thing you can do leaving your loved ones behind imo... No parent should ever have to bury a child, before themselves, because the pain never leaves you, bad enough if they are genuinely ill,and your every hope is pinned on the doctors and medical professionals...but to take their own life and leave loved ones...I could never agree with....there's always someone worse off,and options .... 4 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Chid 6,759 Posted 10 hours ago Report Share Posted 10 hours ago 3 hours ago, Daniel cain said: My pal and his wife found their 17 yr old,he had done similar,over a couple of hundred pound drug debt,but in his own bedroom,they cut him down,but the damage was done finished my mate,he's a shadow of who he was.... committing suicide is a cnuts trick, and the most selfish thing you can do leaving your loved ones behind imo... No parent should ever have to bury a child, before themselves, because the pain never leaves you, bad enough if they are genuinely ill,and your every hope is pinned on the doctors and medical professionals...but to take their own life and leave loved ones...I could never agree with....there's always someone worse off,and options .... Depression makes people think and do crazy things .. some see suicide as the best option for everyone involved Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 48,313 Posted 10 hours ago Report Share Posted 10 hours ago 10 minutes ago, Chid said: Depression makes people think and do crazy things .. some see suicide as the best option for everyone involved It's a cowards way out pal... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Seagull 294 Posted 10 hours ago Report Share Posted 10 hours ago 2 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: It's a cowards way out pal... I don't know, it takes some balls to take your own life. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 48,313 Posted 9 hours ago Report Share Posted 9 hours ago 1 minute ago, Seagull said: I don't know, it takes some balls to take your own life. Not as much as asking someone for help imo Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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