Lab 10,979 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 sprinkle them with zyklon b ....I was just thinking the same with there f*****g milk bottles......nice bottle of hot milk and arsenic!! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 jesus i seriously struggle to have any empathy for a capable adult who wants to sit in a fecking nappy & crap themselves , I just find that part of it very patronizing, having worked as a carer & worked with people who were mentally sound but doubly incontinent & how degrading for a man in his 70's to have a person change & clean them up & how bad it is for a lot of people in care homes i know words are cheap,but if ever i need someone in my old age to wipe my arse and feed me.then thats the time to check yourself out. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wxm 1,638 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 old real tree's back for seconds you twisted wee fella :yes: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Kay 3,709 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 jesus i seriously struggle to have any empathy for a capable adult who wants to sit in a fecking nappy & crap themselves , I just find that part of it very patronizing, having worked as a carer & worked with people who were mentally sound but doubly incontinent & how degrading for a man in his 70's to have a person change & clean them up & how bad it is for a lot of people in care homes i know words are cheap,but if ever i need someone in my old age to wipe my arse and feed me.then thats the time to check yourself out. To be honest when the persons suffering something like dementia it is a little easier, but when you get a man that worked hard all his life & is compus mentus .. but physically unable to care for themselves .. its soul destroying for the client & the carer . dignity stripper aint the word 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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old real tree 92 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 what ever floats your boat wxm.... not for me to be honest... they all need to be shot !!!!!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Lab 10,979 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 jesus i seriously struggle to have any empathy for a capable adult who wants to sit in a fecking nappy & crap themselves , I just find that part of it very patronizing, having worked as a carer & worked with people who were mentally sound but doubly incontinent & how degrading for a man in his 70's to have a person change & clean them up & how bad it is for a lot of people in care homes i know words are cheap,but if ever i need someone in my old age to wipe my arse and feed me.then thats the time to check yourself out. To be honest when the persons suffering something like dementia it is a little easier, but when you get a man that worked hard all his life & is compus mentus .. but physically unable to care for themselves .. its soul destroying for the client & the carer . dignity stripper aint the word Well Kay i take my hat off to you in doing that job...not for all the money in the world could i do that...I think you need to be a special kind of person to do it.... Hope i never have to go through that...... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 If he's got a computer it needs to be checked by the authorities!!! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 ive seen it,mates dad,didnt even know who his son was.forgot to go to toilet,and some of the stuff that came out is mouth,well i find it amusing,but his family certinly didnt; yea i agree lab,hats off to anyone who dedicates there time to helping that horrible illness.slowly eating away at your memory. f**k that, thats no life 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kay 3,709 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 jesus i seriously struggle to have any empathy for a capable adult who wants to sit in a fecking nappy & crap themselves , I just find that part of it very patronizing, having worked as a carer & worked with people who were mentally sound but doubly incontinent & how degrading for a man in his 70's to have a person change & clean them up & how bad it is for a lot of people in care homes i know words are cheap,but if ever i need someone in my old age to wipe my arse and feed me.then thats the time to check yourself out. To be honest when the persons suffering something like dementia it is a little easier, but when you get a man that worked hard all his life & is compus mentus .. but physically unable to care for themselves .. its soul destroying for the client & the carer . dignity stripper aint the word Well Kay i take my hat off to you in doing that job...not for all the money in the world could i do that...I think you need to be a special kind of person to do it.... Hope i never have to go through that...... I loved the job sadly my body didnt , its physically demanding work , but if i could find a home with minimal lifting then i would jump at the chance to do it again, I had one client on my list who was a firey old bugger , he was a nightmare , I learned very quickly how to dodge walking frames I knew he was on his way out when the fire went out of his eyes , & he held my hand & said thank you when i tucked him into bed , he was dead a week later The most rewarding job I have ever done , crap pay , long hours , physically & mentally demading, but if you can make one person feel safe & cared for , warm & contented then the rest dont matter 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
the_stig 6,614 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 jesus i seriously struggle to have any empathy for a capable adult who wants to sit in a fecking nappy & crap themselves , I just find that part of it very patronizing, having worked as a carer & worked with people who were mentally sound but doubly incontinent & how degrading for a man in his 70's to have a person change & clean them up & how bad it is for a lot of people in care homes i know words are cheap,but if ever i need someone in my old age to wipe my arse and feed me.then thats the time to check yourself out. left instructions with my lot --- if anything happened to me where i was over dependent to switch me off 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
the_stig 6,614 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 i aint gave it my time but how the feck does this make good viewing Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stabba 10,745 Posted December 13, 2012 Report Share Posted December 13, 2012 BITTY :laugh: 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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