not all diddys are bad, but they all get tared with the same brush, there is good un's and bad un's with every thing, you get some good blacks then you get some bad, you get some good digging boys then you get some bad, i think you get my drift,
i used to to have a staffy bitch that would be lay all quite one minit and the next, she would be stood looking at the wall growling, she would be there ages doing it, it would start off a little grumble then she would start bearing her teeth and getting really aggressive.
i feel for you ditch_ shitter, but not all women are like that, there are plenty of good honest women about, its just unlucky for you that you got a couple of bad one's