That's a lot of candy mate, I can see where your coming from. Still it could be worse, you could be paying a mortgage for your ex to live in your house The thing that's pissing the girl of is she has tried her hardest to help her out because she was once in the same position. But burying your head in the sand and not answering the phone is not the way forward. And getting pissed and booking holidays is nothing short of taking the piss.
That's a killer mate....you'll be doing that for your daughter though no doubt. Lots do.
I've got a phone call to make today to sort out my mortgage and get