thats exactly what i thought , evben if her her son did steal her credit card, how did he make a payment via pay pal he would need password ect, i have not sent the item yet, as it was only this afternoon, what im worrying about is, if i send it, they could say they never recieved it? im thinking specail delivery, iv got a 100% feed bk blue star , iv sent a message saying i could re-list it for them then pay them, or send it , and they could do that them selves,? this has never happened to me before, im just thinking he may of had a better deal else where, pay pal always sides with t