Agreed Kay to excess I'm lucky in that those I do drink with become merry people, not violent ones
I live with a drink dependent & theres no money for drink tonight so he is curled up on the sofa wrapped in a blanket , very sad to witness but i didnt make him drink in the first place
Not your fault Kay, but still not nice to see, have seen a good few in the course of my job
You become immune to it after a few yrs