Well Frank, mine left me a couple of months back now, taking our 3 daughters with her, we weren't getting on and a lot was me at fault, but it devastated me, the fact of loosing her and the kids was realy bad. She looks like she's just been proving a point or two and might come back, so things are looking up now. All i will say is if you think anything about her or your son, dont do it, there might be no going back and you will regret it. spend a bit time together and do some things that are fun as a family, get a chest freezer, and buy her some flowers to say sorry, within a day or two things