Guest foxyjo. Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 Scent, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Truely heartbreaking for you both. There's only one thing I woud add, that hasn't already been said by everone, and that is, to let yourself and your partner grieve... Sometimes it can feel as though you shouldn't be making a fuss...some people will say it wasn't a baby yet, etc etc....but to you and your partner, it was. As a woman, you dream when you're pregnant of all the things to come, and it's probably the same for a man. You don't just lose a baby, you lose those dreams too, and that is devastating. Marking your baby's passing will help a little, acknowledgement of his/her existence. Perhaps planting a tree or a special garden pot, may help. Did me anyway. All the very best and much love to you both.x Quote Link to post Share on other sites
miss lurcher bitch 319 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 sorry to here that scent i went through the same i ended up haveing for kids 2 of them were premature 1 at 10 wks early and 1 at 6 wks early its not nice at all but keep your chin up the time will fall right for both of you and my thoughts are with you and your mrs tell her take care at take time mlb Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mikecat1 0 Posted November 20, 2008 Report Share Posted November 20, 2008 sorry to hear of your loss mate !!!! i have a son that has just turned one and i cant ever think of life without him. all the best to you both and good luck in the future Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Missie 1 Posted November 21, 2008 Report Share Posted November 21, 2008 So sorry scent. There is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said but my thoughts are with you both. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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