Phantom 631 Posted August 5, 2010 Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 Not yet no, he came over and chatted to me about my shooting and work etc and i kept dropping hints in but he didn't bite! He's getting me to fit his bathroom out now, so i'm just trying to figure out how to put it politely, considering he know's i'm after permission, seems to like, likes my work but still hasn't offered Any ideas? Cheers mate Tris Come right out and tell him that if he would like; you'll be more than happy to help out with his bunny problem Free Of Charge. But don't wait till you've finished do it while your chatting. He maybe thinks that you may charge so he's not interested; dropping hints just don't work Tris, be upfront Farmers are (well the few that I have known are anyway) straight up honest hard grafters and they like to be treated straight up and with respect. Hints mean your skirting round things, he will appreciate you being direct with him even if he says no; he may call you back at a later date Phantom Quote Link to post
tdesnos 6 Posted August 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 Nice one on the permission Tris. As for this farmer, I finish up the plumbing and then just ask the fella out right. Yeah probs for the best! Cheers matey! Quote Link to post
tdesnos 6 Posted August 5, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2010 Not yet no, he came over and chatted to me about my shooting and work etc and i kept dropping hints in but he didn't bite! He's getting me to fit his bathroom out now, so i'm just trying to figure out how to put it politely, considering he know's i'm after permission, seems to like, likes my work but still hasn't offered Any ideas? Cheers mate Tris Come right out and tell him that if he would like; you'll be more than happy to help out with his bunny problem Free Of Charge. But don't wait till you've finished do it while your chatting. He maybe thinks that you may charge so he's not interested; dropping hints just don't work Tris, be upfront Farmers are (well the few that I have known are anyway) straight up honest hard grafters and they like to be treated straight up and with respect. Hints mean your skirting round things, he will appreciate you being direct with him even if he says no; he may call you back at a later date Phantom You're right Phantom. I think it's because i want it so much, i'm scared of going bout it the wrong way and feck it up. I have no control over what he says, so i should just ask him out right - very Stoic Quote Link to post
gurtwurz 793 Posted August 6, 2010 Report Share Posted August 6, 2010 tris just ask the fella politely but directly and see how it goes mate, youd be surprisedhow easy it is buddy cheers, wurz Quote Link to post
pest hunter 151 15 Posted August 6, 2010 Report Share Posted August 6, 2010 Get them maggpie's Quote Link to post
tdesnos 6 Posted August 6, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2010 tris just ask the fella politely but directly and see how it goes mate, youd be surprisedhow easy it is buddy cheers, wurz Hope so buddy - cheers Quote Link to post
tdesnos 6 Posted August 6, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2010 Get them maggpie's I plan on opening a can of 'whoop-ass' on them this weekend Cheers matey Quote Link to post
Sweeney-Todd 208 Posted August 6, 2010 Report Share Posted August 6, 2010 Hi Tris. Go for it mate, ask him, dont be shy, you have absolutly nothing to loose, and everything to gain. The Farmer will appreciate your polite confidence ATB. Bill. Quote Link to post
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