They seldom give you a choice,it would be nice if they offered you a list of suitable alternative punishments,stocks,keel hauling,bashed on the bare bottom with a bunch of thistles and nettles or even a night of oral passion with Anne Widdecombe,but in the real world if you takes your chances youve got to be prepared to take the consequence that ensue,good or bad.
Im prepared for all of the above