Oh come on you would grumble if she didnt bother keeping her hair & skin in good shape, theres nothing wrong in plastering yourself in cream when you have had a shower, tell me a woman who dont do it , one that just gets up & goes out without bothering to look the best they can, if you make the exterier look good then the interier also feels good
If you dont feel good about yourself you become a bit negative & that makes your life harder, i should know i spent 20 yrs feeling negative then i woke up one day & thought f**k this for a game of soldiers