thanks every one for the support and advice. I have proof of payment because it was payed through paypal, the reason I havent already got the law involved is because when i checked his profile he hasnt been on since the 27th oct and i was hoping that there was a genuine reason why i had'nt heard from him, but now unless he has died, or his computer and phone is fecked i belive iv been stung.
id just like to say thanks to lukey who has tried to sort it for me but with out joy, so thanks alot lukey much appreciated thanks for trying
ATB mantha