reddawn 2,173 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 if he is in afghan mate she may aswell live at home hadnt she???... That's the worst thing she can do she needs to make a life for herself and going home to mummy's will not help that ... The whole regiment will be away and so there will be hundreds of wives in the same boat ... The family's office will lay lots of trips on and get togethers for the wives at this difficult time and this will help her to realy get to know lots of people and intergrate herself into the regiment. Thats exactly what shes been told..........Socks you know your shit and i appreciate your input Id suggested the same as Lurcher1 said.......but even the lad himself said pretty much whats written above......besides which,for some wives its simply not possible,Bulford is 2 hours away from us but thats a trot up the road for some who are from all corners of the country....apparently some of the wives can kind of alienate themself by " going home to mum " rather than sticking it out with the others......i can understand and respect that. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 if he is in afghan mate she may aswell live at home hadnt she???... That's the worst thing she can do she needs to make a life for herself and going home to mummy's will not help that ... The whole regiment will be away and so there will be hundreds of wives in the same boat ... The family's office will lay lots of trips on and get togethers for the wives at this difficult time and this will help her to realy get to know lots of people and intergrate herself into the regiment. Thats exactly what shes been told..........Socks you know your shit and i appreciate your input Id suggested the same as Lurcher1 said.......but even the lad himself said pretty much whats written above......besides which,for some wives its simply not possible,Bulford is 2 hours away from us but thats a trot up the road for some who are from all corners of the country....apparently some of the wives can kind of alienate themself by " going home to mum " rather than sticking it out with the others......i can understand and respect that. Lived it for 22 years mate and started off just like your son in law and your daughter ... It is a very unique way of life but once you get used to it the rewards can be tremendouse ... I wish them luck and hope they enjoy it Mate ......... 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gonetoearth 5,144 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 if he is in afghan mate she may aswell live at home hadnt she???... That's the worst thing she can do she needs to make a life for herself and going home to mummy's will not help that ... The whole regiment will be away and so there will be hundreds of wives in the same boat ... The family's office will lay lots of trips on and get togethers for the wives at this difficult time and this will help her to realy get to know lots of people and intergrate herself into the regiment. Thats exactly what shes been told..........Socks you know your shit and i appreciate your input Id suggested the same as Lurcher1 said.......but even the lad himself said pretty much whats written above......besides which,for some wives its simply not possible,Bulford is 2 hours away from us but thats a trot up the road for some who are from all corners of the country....apparently some of the wives can kind of alienate themself by " going home to mum " rather than sticking it out with the others......i can understand and respect that. Lived it for 22 years mate and started off just like your son in law and your daughter ... It is a very unique way of life but once you get used to it the rewards can be tremendouse ... I wish them luck and hope they enjoy it Mate ......... what were you in socks Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 I was infantry mate ....... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gonetoearth 5,144 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 I was infantry mate ....... . Bet you wernt a hat. Bud Quote Link to post Share on other sites
socks 32,253 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 I could tell you what I was ........... But then I would have to kill you ............ 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
reddawn 2,173 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gonetoearth 5,144 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 . What you laughing at you were a hat lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
reddawn 2,173 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 . What you laughing at you were a hat lol we all were to start, but i got my tam o shanter in the end Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gonetoearth 5,144 Posted July 25, 2012 Report Share Posted July 25, 2012 . What you laughing at you were a hat lol we all were to start, but i got my tam o shanter in the end . Still a hat to some dot but respect from me my little tam oshanter lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lab 10,979 Posted July 26, 2012 Report Share Posted July 26, 2012 Tell the truth Gnasher, the lads obviously a hammers fan and thats all that counts................. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 31,178 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 26, 2012 Tell the truth Gnasher, the lads obviously a hammers fan and thats all that counts................. :laugh: ......Well he wouldnt of got in the door if he wasnt !.........He,s not mad into football as it happens....he,ll watch a game but not obssesive like some I remember the first time he came into the house i barely got the words " who do you support " out......and he was straight in there " WEST HAM " !!!......Think my daughter may well of briefed him beforehand...... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
"Earth!" 503 Posted July 26, 2012 Report Share Posted July 26, 2012 Tell the truth Gnasher, the lads obviously a hammers fan and thats all that counts................. :laugh: ......Well he wouldnt of got in the door if he wasnt !.........He,s not mad into football as it happens....he,ll watch a game but not obssesive like some I remember the first time he came into the house i barely got the words " who do you support " out......and he was straight in there " WEST HAM " !!!......Think my daughter may well of briefed him beforehand...... think you should of slapped him for lying me and socks are in pissing distance from your daughter.. if she likes antique shops and pubs but feck all else, she would love it where we are Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gnasher16 31,178 Posted July 26, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 26, 2012 think you should of slapped him for lying me and socks are in pissing distance from your daughter.. if she likes antique shops and pubs but feck all else, she would love it where we are No sod that he might slap me back......im probably not the most approachable looking chap most of her boyfriends used to wait round the corner ....this lad was straight in looked me in the eye gave me a proper mans handshake.............but then when you have no fear of getting shot to bits or walking in the wrong direction and getting blown to bits why would you fear one man.............different class these lads it would be fair to say ive taken a shine to him ! And if you lads local to Bulford are tradesman of sorts then dont be shy.........they have big plans for their house and my daughters got a degree in spending money !..... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
reddawn 2,173 Posted July 26, 2012 Report Share Posted July 26, 2012 my daughter got the same degree gnash an she is nearly 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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