Hi guys yeah I have PM'd him, took me a while to work out how to do it as you can't just click on someones username (you can't as a newbie anyway I don't know if that changes once you've posted more), you have to go through your own profile to the messenger thing and then put their username in manually... bit different to the forums I am used to lol!
Who else did she belong to? I would love to see some old photos of her if anyone had any, and just know a little more about what her life was like... it sounds as though she's been passed from pillar to post, which is a shame, but she's going