I hope your family gets the outcome they want the stone stays they are allowed to rest in the cemetary as well. If not they could consider removing your nephew to another cemetary.
This will shock some people but my father took this route after a long battle with Farnham town council concerning my mothers grave (long story).
It was easy once the correct forms were filled. A good undertaker will make sure that this unusual service is done the best way possible for the family.
I dont know how anyone could be offfended by a childs grave or why anyone would want to cause your family any more pa
