nicola, you get it every where you go my friend its called life , it will never change it's at every corner you turn in life, the best thing to do mate is just get on with your own life , i think turk has made his point and you have made yours, no one will ever know the full facts only turk and his family about why golly has had to be moved about so much because its private and thats the way it should remain .
you and turk know in your own heart minds and a few others that what golly can work like ..and has done
but like i say you do get it every where you go, its not just you and