I agree with this, especially with regards to stressing it more. It just makes the dog scared of taking a crap and scared of you, Not the way to build a good bond with your dog. I hope you manage to agree, its not easy when you have conflicting views.
thanks all for your comments and advice,shes pretty good in the 'poo' department and almost always goes outside.Unfortunatly she hardly ever pees out there unless she already outside.I'm just going to keep at it with her and I'll continue to leave the door open (for as long as I can stand the cold!!)as I'm sure it's because she's just