Suicide

[WILF 44,263]

1 minute ago, mushroom said:

Going

I'm actually ok with it... shaved my balls too, in homage

[mushroom 12,387]

Ok, I f***ing hate that I have pattern baldness... that numpty of me father married me mam and she gave it to me... like herpes, it's not going away

[WILF 44,263]

3 minutes ago, mushroom said:

Ok, I f***ing hate that I have pattern baldness... that numpty of me father married me mam and she gave it to me... like herpes, it's not going away

I’ll tell you what would cure that………1 million dollars ! Lol  

[mushroom 12,387]

Back to the topic, men and women will end themselves over this. The world is fuucked up mate.

[mushroom 12,387]

1 minute ago, WILF said:

I’ll tell you what would cure that………1 million dollars ! Lol  

Nah, I'm pretty sure the mrs would spend a million in a week feeding homeless people if she had the resources. 

[WILF 44,263]

Just now, mushroom said:

Back to the topic, men and women will end themselves over this. The world is fuucked up mate.

As my old guvnor used to say, if you don’t laugh you’d cry mate   

[Mister Gain 1,759]

3 hours ago, socks said:

Well I’ve just come across a woman trying to jump off a bridge with two coppers hanging on to her so I pulled over ran up the bank and helped pull her over to safety. She had apparently just been released from police custody and was suffering from a mental illness …. Before 

after ….

 

that’s my good deed for the week …..

Good man Socks, well done.

This is the kind of crap we were up against with my son...

 

A mental health patient says he was discharged from hospital with "the rope he tried to hang himself with" just three days before.

Daniel Durrant, 40, was admitted to the Shrewsbury Ward at Oxleas House, based at Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Woolwich, on July 30 after he was found with a rope around his neck on a bridge over the A2 in Charlton.

Police were called when members of the public saw him on the wrong side of the barrier tying rope to the railings.

Officers were able to pull him back and he was sectioned under the Mental Health Act.

 

Daniel spent three days in hospital before being discharged, and says there was no mention of a follow-up or names of people to contact.

He told News Shopper: “I was discharged because they said the environment was wrong for me and I was referred to Bexley housing.”

He added: “When I left they handed me the rope I had used to try and hang myself. They handed me all my possessions, even my shoelaces. It’s like they want me to go and try again.”

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They held an internal enquiry to see if they failed my son and nowhere on the 8 page report does it say they did anything wrong or could have improved the situation. The woman who wrote up the report just omitted anything negative just to cover the backs of her staff. 

We had the Eastbourne Coroners Office on the phone a couple of hours ago as they had received a copy of said report and they will be informing the woman she has to attend the inquest as there are questions needing answers. I hope they throw the fcuking book at her, how dare she dismiss my sons life so trivially.

[mushroom 12,387]

3 minutes ago, Mister Gain said:

Good man Socks, well done.

This is the kind of crap we were up against with my son...

 

A mental health patient says he was discharged from hospital with "the rope he tried to hang himself with" just three days before.

Daniel Durrant, 40, was admitted to the Shrewsbury Ward at Oxleas House, based at Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Woolwich, on July 30 after he was found with a rope around his neck on a bridge over the A2 in Charlton.

Police were called when members of the public saw him on the wrong side of the barrier tying rope to the railings.

Officers were able to pull him back and he was sectioned under the Mental Health Act.

 

Daniel spent three days in hospital before being discharged, and says there was no mention of a follow-up or names of people to contact.

He told News Shopper: “I was discharged because they said the environment was wrong for me and I was referred to Bexley housing.”

He added: “When I left they handed me the rope I had used to try and hang myself. They handed me all my possessions, even my shoelaces. It’s like they want me to go and try again.”

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They held an internal enquiry to see if they failed my son and nowhere on the 8 page report does it say they did anything wrong or could have improved the situation. The woman who wrote up the report just omitted anything negative just to cover the backs of her staff. 

We had the Eastbourne Coroners Office on the phone a couple of hours ago as they had received a copy of said report and they will be informing the woman she has to attend the inquest as there are questions needing answers. I hope they throw the fcuking book at her, how dare she dismiss my sons life so trivially.

Please accept my condolences however trivial they may seem. My heart to you and your family. 

[NEWKID 26,158]

11 minutes ago, Mister Gain said:

Good man Socks, well done.

This is the kind of crap we were up against with my son...

 

A mental health patient says he was discharged from hospital with "the rope he tried to hang himself with" just three days before.

Daniel Durrant, 40, was admitted to the Shrewsbury Ward at Oxleas House, based at Queen Elizabeth Hospital in Woolwich, on July 30 after he was found with a rope around his neck on a bridge over the A2 in Charlton.

Police were called when members of the public saw him on the wrong side of the barrier tying rope to the railings.

Officers were able to pull him back and he was sectioned under the Mental Health Act.

 

Daniel spent three days in hospital before being discharged, and says there was no mention of a follow-up or names of people to contact.

He told News Shopper: “I was discharged because they said the environment was wrong for me and I was referred to Bexley housing.”

He added: “When I left they handed me the rope I had used to try and hang myself. They handed me all my possessions, even my shoelaces. It’s like they want me to go and try again.”

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They held an internal enquiry to see if they failed my son and nowhere on the 8 page report does it say they did anything wrong or could have improved the situation. The woman who wrote up the report just omitted anything negative just to cover the backs of her staff. 

We had the Eastbourne Coroners Office on the phone a couple of hours ago as they had received a copy of said report and they will be informing the woman she has to attend the inquest as there are questions needing answers. I hope they throw the fcuking book at her, how dare she dismiss my sons life so trivially.

I've not got the correct words, who has? but I sincerley wish you and your family the very best and offer my condolences for your loss, it is heart breaking reading mate.

[Greyman 25,220]

31 minutes ago, mushroom said:

Going

I'm actually ok with it... shaved my balls too, in homage

No that was to make your willy look bigger

[mushroom 12,387]

Just now, Greyman said:

No that was to make your willy look bigger

Read the room

I always feel laughter and connection beats any pill or diagnosis but the reality is, real mental illness will wipe the mate/son/daughter/father/mother etc from their SD card and leave them behind wondering, feeling alone and uncared for. 

Have you ever been in a fight alone, jumped and battled your way out. Afterwards you wonder, where was my back up, how did I do that? You feel alone, furious and pumped! That times a God knows amount has a serious effect on any man/woman, especially when the battle is in the head. I was told that's being a man. Maybe.. but kids nowadays ain't built like that, yet they are kinda told the same.

[socks 32,253]

2 hours ago, WILF said:

I can see the headline now:

”Worlds only pregnant man saves woman from suicide” 

(He obviously wasn’t expecting to get away with no piss take ! Lol ) 

I grew my belly for just this sort of emergency. It acted as a cantilever to whip her up and over the bridge barrier

[mushroom 12,387]

2 minutes ago, baker boy said:

fckn interfering busybody..

Ooo dark

[Greyman 25,220]

7 minutes ago, mushroom said:

Read the room

I always feel laughter and connection beats any pill or diagnosis but the reality is, real mental illness will wipe the mate/son/daughter/father/mother etc from their SD card and leave them behind wondering, feeling alone and uncared for. 

Have you ever been in a fight alone, jumped and battled your way out. Afterwards you wonder, where was my back up, how did I do that? You feel alone, furious and pumped! That times a God knows amount has a serious effect on any man/woman, especially when the battle is in the head. I was told that's being a man. Maybe.. but kids nowadays ain't built like that, yet they are kinda told the same.

I hear you mate, I have suffered every kind of abuse you could imagine from child hood, but I have always been a fighter and the day the fight goes from a man you have nothing else left, i,m very good at putting things in mental box’s and packing them away, I,ve also learnt not to hate people as it consumes you, but more importantly I,ve learnt to like myself, which ain’t easy when you have been put down and told how worthless you are from a very young age, it’s taken me nearly 60 years to fathom out, but I,m probably more happy and content than at any stage in my life, 

[WILF 44,263]

16 minutes ago, mushroom said:

Read the room

I always feel laughter and connection beats any pill or diagnosis but the reality is, real mental illness will wipe the mate/son/daughter/father/mother etc from their SD card and leave them behind wondering, feeling alone and uncared for. 

Have you ever been in a fight alone, jumped and battled your way out. Afterwards you wonder, where was my back up, how did I do that? You feel alone, furious and pumped! That times a God knows amount has a serious effect on any man/woman, especially when the battle is in the head. I was told that's being a man. Maybe.. but kids nowadays ain't built like that, yet they are kinda told the same.

I think it’s a fine balance mate between knowing when to wrap an arm round someone and knowing when to say “Stop being a f***ing pansy”……..not everyone is being a pansy, some are genuinely in bits…..and some are just a pansy.

But that said, the biggest thing someone has experienced is still big to them even if it’s nothing to you.

Humility and humanity go a long way in life no matter what.