Greyman 25,082 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 2 minutes ago, Daniel cain said: These days it seems like everyone's to wrapped up in their own lives to give any consideration to others around them ... sometimes a friendly word,a good morning,how are you?can make a massive difference to how some folks are feeling Funny I was just wondering what the rates of suicide are in country,s were people have nothing but are happy and still look out for one another in comparison to us that surround ourselves in false shite to try and make ourselves happy while treading on each other to get it, I would imaging it’s quite a contrast, 10 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,789 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, mushroom said: I've been with the mrs just over a year and a half and in that time 3 or 4 of her friends have killed themselves. All in their 20's ffs! What is going on in that generation where death is seen as the only escape? Pressure from social media to look ,act a certain way??? Got to have this,got to have that?we have become very shallow as a species imo.. 8 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Borr 4,440 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 (edited) I feel I've failed to clarify my point. Mental health is clearly a terrible thing and suicide is utterly tragic and devastating Edited October 23, 2021 by Borr 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
riohog 5,621 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 im struggling to get my head around this mentalheath thing , ,seems that a fair few use it as a get out clorse these days . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FOXHUNTER 5,020 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 We all feel down at times and have shit going on but I don't understand how suicide is the answer , it is selfish especially for the kids left behind. I suppose it boils down to who has the strongest will in my opinion......either give up or fight on . Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, riohog said: im struggling to get my head around this mentalheath thing , ,seems that a fair few use it as a get out clorse these days . I believe some do 2...but its definitely a real thing... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 3 minutes ago, FOXHUNTER said: We all feel down at times and have shit going on but I don't understand how suicide is the answer , it is selfish especially for the kids left behind. I suppose it boils down to who has the strongest will in my opinion......either give up or fight on . And this is how I feel...I have lost the will and fight in me...it took My manhood..like a child who is living in a man's world ...but living in a man's world.. You lose your manhood..what's left? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 I honestly do see it as a weakness.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FOXHUNTER 5,020 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 Just now, tb25 said: I honestly do see it as a weakness.. Maybe , therefore it is important that you talk to people . I know it's not easy as I am a lone wolf and cant stand most people but you can talk always talk to your family. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Daniel cain 42,789 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 There's loads of posters etc on the building sites these days...with helplines etc and people to talk too...had a call a few weeks back from lads I used to work with...one of the boys who drove machines in our old gang had finished work on a Friday 3:30 pm...by 6 o'clock the same evening...his partner found him hanging in the barnnow on the surface he had everything..couple of his own machines, beautiful wife and kids,nice house,nice motors...god only knows what was going on in his head...quests we will never know what tipped him over th edge.Rip Gareth pal... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 Talked with professional people since I was 3 mate..am 39 now.. The best I ever felt when I did prison for the first time 2 years back as mad as the sound..I felt content.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FOXHUNTER 5,020 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 Just now, tb25 said: Talked with professional people since I was 3 mate..am 39 now.. The best I ever felt when I did prison for the first time 2 years back as mad as the sound..I felt content.. Dont understand that as that's one thing that would lead me to it..... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jonjon79 13,340 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 1 hour ago, tb25 said: The fight continues..but I do no myself that I won't ever be normal or like other men..that's a fact.. None of us are normal mate - we're all a bit different to each other in different ways. ......... I'm on a hunting forum - I've got 2 chihuahuas and air rifles ffs Good luck and all the best 2 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FOXHUNTER 5,020 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 Couldn't survive without my freedom. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tatsblisters 7,914 Posted October 23, 2021 Report Share Posted October 23, 2021 A lot of the circumstances want addressing before it gets to the point of no return a lad near me the other year who left a wife and kids behind committed suicide due to get in into debt to cocaine dealers another lad who i knew well a good dog man and loved his rabbiting committed suicide sadly as he was in remission from prostate cancer. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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