tb25 4,626 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Lifes been pretty perfect just lately..changed jobs..better money.. It's all good now I want to die again..what the fuckis wrong with me lads...I no am weak mindined..why one day I feel good the next I self harm..f***ing perfetic.. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Greb147 6,808 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Just now, tb25 said: Lifes been pretty perfect just lately..changed jobs..better money.. It's all good now I want to die again..what the fuckis wrong with me lads...I no am weak mindined..why one day I feel good the next I self harm..f***ing perfetic.. This is the last place you should be coming to for your troubles mate, go and see some professionals pal and good luck. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tb25 4,626 Posted October 17, 2021 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 I no al get slated..I kind of want it mate...hopefully it kicks me out my weakness 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Greb147 6,808 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Just now, tb25 said: I no al get slated..I kind of want it mate...hopefully it kicks me out my weakness No slating here mate but there's specialists that can be seen, you've got to want help yourself mate. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Arry 18,513 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Think of all the positives mate. Get up on the Moors and take some deep breaths. You asking for help and that a good positive step but please mate see a professional it's not a weakness think of all those solderers that have sort help. All the very best. Cheers Arry 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ken's Deputy 4,456 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 7 minutes ago, Arry said: it's not a weakness think of all those solderers that have sort help. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astanley 11,465 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 27 minutes ago, tb25 said: Lifes been pretty perfect just lately..changed jobs..better money.. It's all good now I want to die again..what the fuckis wrong with me lads...I no am weak mindined..why one day I feel good the next I self harm..f***ing perfetic.. Aargh ,you ok hun ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
pesky1972 4,926 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 (edited) My advice for what it’s worth, if you’re drinking, then stop. Booze is fuel for depression. It doesn’t drown sorrows, but it will drown you in them. Edited to add, all the best mate. Edited October 17, 2021 by pesky1972 7 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Contact your gp or if your feeling really down go a and e today they might get someone from mental health to see you depression is a horrible thing for anyone and get hold of your local aa alcohol and depression go hand in hand Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thefensarefarbutistillgo 2,480 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 Always look on the bright side of life, just think there will be a lot more people worse off than you, homeless ect and count yourself lucky for whatever you have Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,247 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 You aren't pathetic one little bit mate but a simple human being and its what life does to us have you a partner or close friend you can talk to try keep yourself busy mate if you can pour your heart out on here if it helps but please for yourself and the sake of others around you get some help mate the world we live in today is enough to drive anyone round the Bend atb mate 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
THE STIFFMEISTER 14,553 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 1 hour ago, tb25 said: Lifes been pretty perfect just lately..changed jobs..better money.. It's all good now I want to die again..what the fuckis wrong with me lads...I no am weak mindined..why one day I feel good the next I self harm..f***ing perfetic.. It takes a man to admit his weaknesses imho and if you feel comfortable in the anonymity of a forum rather than Facebook or professionals as a first port of call who are we to judge . I was in a bad place mentally two years ago , I had to be me for everyone else and inside I was crumbling. In a way I still am but I’m much more battle hardened for it. what I found helped was I took quotes that inspired me and I put them everywhere. I printed and laminated them on walls , my notebook , I used them as screensavers in my phone , had them on my sun visor in the car . when I found myself alone and unoccupied, I’d read them and use the hate or self loathing I felt to push me on . any way these were the pics I used , I hope that they may be of solace for you . 3 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Chid 6,372 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 10 minutes ago, thefensarefarbutistillgo said: Always look on the bright side of life, just think there will be a lot more people worse off than you, homeless ect and count yourself lucky for whatever you have Its easy to say that when your not suffering from depression..there is no bright side of life there is no people worse of than you , and your not lucky , depression is a dark hole not many people understand and people brush off with comments like yours or man up ect ect .. I'd seek help or even take up someone's offer to talk on here , people need to talk more about it so more people understand it's not just a case of look on the bright side 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thefensarefarbutistillgo 2,480 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 3 minutes ago, Chid said: Its easy to say that when your not suffering from depression..there is no bright side of life there is no people worse of than you , and your not lucky , depression is a dark hole not many people understand and people brush off with comments like yours or man up ect ect .. I'd seek help or even take up someone's offer to talk on here , people need to talk more about it so more people understand it's not just a case of look on the bright side Sorry only trying to help the man with what I said, positive mental attitude, I assume you have got to try and put things in perspective when you feel like that, it was coming from a good place Quote Link to post Share on other sites
THE STIFFMEISTER 14,553 Posted October 17, 2021 Report Share Posted October 17, 2021 When I struggle , I try to occupy myself into something positive . I try to call it the golden hour , wether it be a workout , reading or actual work , I try to do one think every day to improve my life . Open university free courses were a god send for me , I’ve done about 60 the last 12 months from structured Formal engineering personal development to history , social sciences , anything . They have topics to suit anyone and understanding is key to your own perceived failings . give this a whirl , mate , who knows ? It may help . Understanding depression and anxiety - OpenLearn - Open University - SDK228_2 WWW.OPEN.EDU This free course, Understanding depression and anxiety, explores the causes of these mental health issues... 5 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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