hollands hope 1,013 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 My condolances to you and your family. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,196 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 28 minutes ago, iworkwhippets said: got duggie mac with me at the moment wilf sorting my finances out, I have nobody except ruths daughter and granddaughter read my topic they have never been near I texted ruths daughter informing her of her mums death as of yet no reply That’s very sad to read mate. I can’t really comment on your late wife’s daughter, everyone deals with things different so I won’t be too judgemental about it. However, I’m sure everyone reading this would join me in saying deal with the things you have to deal with in the short term then once the funeral is done have the courage to reach out to someone and talk about how you are feeling. We all get set in our ways and it takes some bottle to break the habits of a lifetime even if that could mean saving our own life. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Born Hunter 17,622 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 5 minutes ago, WILF said: We all get set in our ways and it takes some bottle to break the habits of a lifetime even if that could mean saving our own life. Ain't that the truth. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,247 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 duggie mac just gone, good lord above, what a day in front of me tomorrow, death certificates here death certificates there over paid benefits want paying back, but duggie mack are coming with me, brilliant they are, I will answer the pms ive got later lads I have to go out now, thank you Quote Link to post Share on other sites
WILF 44,196 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 43 minutes ago, iworkwhippets said: duggie mac just gone, good lord above, what a day in front of me tomorrow, death certificates here death certificates there over paid benefits want paying back, but duggie mack are coming with me, brilliant they are, I will answer the pms ive got later lads I have to go out now, thank you Don’t worry about paying back their benefits mate, f**k em....they can afford it 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,247 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 the overpaid benefit I owe back Wilf is from the pensions department, its a pension I got for looking after ruth on my own, and was paid into my account the day after ruth passed I told them in the beginning I didn't want paying for looking after my wife, but they insisted and it did help, it saved the district nurses coming in every day to change her dressing nothing I couldn't handle and it was ruths wish about 320 quid I owe back Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dytkos 17,534 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 Don't worry about that mate, sure that money will raised in a crack and before you say you don't want charity blah blah blah, were all here trying to help. Don't try to handle all this by yourself when you've got friends you probably didn't know you had. Try and be strong, you know its what Ruthy would have wanted. Sorry if I'm speaking out of turn but most of us have been in a similar position. There is a little light at the end of the tunnel although I'm sure it doesn't feel that way for you. We are here for you mate. D. 12 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
byron 1,093 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 they will not chase you for the overpayment keith,i was overpayed, and one of them told me to ignore it.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NEWKID 26,094 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 50 minutes ago, dytkos said: Don't worry about that mate, sure that money will raised in a crack and before you say you don't want charity blah blah blah, were all here trying to help. Don't try to handle all this by yourself when you've got friends you probably didn't know you had. Try and be strong, you know its what Ruthy would have wanted. Sorry if I'm speaking out of turn but most of us have been in a similar position. There is a little light at the end of the tunnel although I'm sure it doesn't feel that way for you. We are here for you mate. D. Agreed D, no one should stress about money at times like this... Keith, the money can be sorted when you need it mate, dont stress about these things.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dogmandont 9,317 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 This is the most heart wrenching tread I’ve read in the 10 years I’ve been on here and I’m truly gutted for you iww, your one of the true genuine folks on here and the world needs more men like you not less so try your damndest to stay strong even though it feels impossible at moment. 14 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iworkwhippets 12,247 Posted October 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 always paid my way in life, I owe nobody nowt, they want money they will get it, ok lads, topic has run its course I think now, you must be getting pissed of with it, so thanks to all of you for listening to me, I was planning wait till the depths of winter get myself up on them Scottish moors bottle of whisky, and go sleep, but a certain member on here has put a stop to that thanks keith 8 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FLATTOP 3,655 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 I’ve just read all this and its a difficult read you have my sincere condolences but you definitely need to speak to people and not worry about the small stuff money etc, stay strong mate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fireman 10,774 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, iworkwhippets said: always paid my way in life, I owe nobody nowt, they want money they will get it, ok lads, topic has run its course I think now, you must be getting pissed of with it, so thanks to all of you for listening to me, I was planning wait till the depths of winter get myself up on them Scottish moors bottle of whisky, and go sleep, but a certain member on here has put a stop to that thanks keith This topic mate will live long on this forum as i'll never forget it and as for pissing us off,you couldn't be further from the truth mate.Your mates on here which are many want to help in any way we can,be it a chat on pm or the phone to helping you with some pennies towards the cost of things to come as we would all be honoured to chip in with a offering IWW and it's because we care for you and where your at. Many of us have been to very dark places in our lives and we've hung in there and seen the dark turn to light and we just want to tell you and for you to believe it, it will get easier my friend.The pain don;t totaly go but we live so much easier with it and some of our tears of sadness have turned to tears of joy at fond memories, may some of yours soon do the same ... 18 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mushroom 12,352 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 What he said Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmag 5,862 Posted October 2, 2019 Report Share Posted October 2, 2019 4 minutes ago, fireman said: This topic mate will live long on this forum as i'll never forget it and as for pissing us off,you couldn't be further from the truth mate.Your mates on here which are many want to help in any way we can,be it a chat on pm or the phone to helping you with some pennies towards the cost of things to come as we would all be honoured to chip in with a offering IWW and it's because we care for you and where your at. Many of us have been to very dark places in our lives and we've hung in there and seen the dark turn to light and we just want to tell you and for you to believe it, it will get easier my friend.The pain don;t totaly go but we live so much easier with it and some of our tears of sadness have turned to tears of joy at fond memories, may some of yours soon do the same ... Well said Steve I haven't forgot the help you gave me nor will I we are all here to lend a ear Keith or anything else you may need and it's just to remind you you are Not Alone in this 2 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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