scroat 62 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Mate getting planted in the morning .just thinkig should i attend the funeral after all he must hav wanted to die or should i go about my normal day .i think topping yourself is a selfish act and a waste of life what you think. Link to post Share on other sites
stewie 3,387 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 cant be much of a mate if you have to ask 30,000 strangers on a website!! 14 Link to post Share on other sites
Wxm 1,638 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Mate getting planted in the morning .just thinkig should i attend the funeral after all he must hav wanted to die or should i go about my normal day .i think topping yourself is a selfish act and a waste of life what you think. without knowing reasons I don't think any one can tell you what your best to do but in time I would have thought you may regret more not going than the fact you did go. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ideation 8,216 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 He was your mate. That is surely enough reason. The rest is bye the bye. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
danw 1,748 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Either way your mate wont care. Link to post Share on other sites
gouldy257 79 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 (edited) you'd be best attending you'll regret it further down the line if you don't.. then you'll feel bad and you wont be fit to turn back time.. ATB bud keep the chin up.. Edited April 25, 2013 by gouldy257 Link to post Share on other sites
scroat 62 Posted April 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 cant be much of a mate if you have to ask 30,000 strangers on a website!! theres mates n theres mates .so your correct .he wasnt a true mate. Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 used to think it was a cowards option,but i dont believe that anymore. takes a brave man to end his own life,and tbh who is anyone to judge a man who took his own life.we have no way of knowing what was going on his head.sometimes its best to just end it yourself on the quiet. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
stewie 3,387 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 (edited) used to think it was a cowards option,but i dont believe that anymore. takes a brave man to end his own life,and tbh who is anyone to judge a man who took his own life.we have no way of knowing what was going on his head.sometimes its best to just end it yourself on the quiet. you out of irn bru???............. Edited April 25, 2013 by lurcher1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wxm 1,638 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 I also think if he couldn't be there in his hour of need then he should have the decency to be there for his resting Link to post Share on other sites
scothunter 12,609 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 used to think it was a cowards option,but i dont believe that anymore. takes a brave man to end his own life,and tbh who is anyone to judge a man who took his own life.we have no way of knowing what was going on his head.sometimes its best to just end it yourself on the quiet. you out of irn bru???............. no never lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
The Seeker 3,048 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Must have even in one hell of a place to take his own life. For what it's worth remember him for the times you did enjoy attend his funeral and have no regrets ATB 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Waz 4,198 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Shame the fella had to turn to doing that as a way out of his problems. Sad to hear. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
stewie 3,387 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 I also think if he couldn't be there in his hour of need then he should have the decency to be there for his resting ill be honest here............my brothers best mate who i considered a brother from another mother put a facebook status up saying "enough is enough, cant go on like this...wat shall i do" i read it and never replied..............three days later we were at his cremation..... thing is when you have your own life to worry about, a guy who has made his mind up is the least of your worrys..........if someone has made there mind up that there is only one option then what can you do??? go to his funeral, cry your eyes out...........but deep down you will no if only the daft c**t looked at the bigger picture, then he would still be down the local on a saturday afternnoon........ Link to post Share on other sites
fatasafool 216 Posted April 25, 2013 Report Share Posted April 25, 2013 Mate getting planted in the morning .just thinkig should i attend the funeral after all he must hav wanted to die or should i go about my normal day .i think topping yourself is a selfish act and a waste of life what you think.your a dick head 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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