I sat my 12 year old boy and 10 year old daughter down to tell them about this story . I went into extreme detail about what happens when you fall in about hypothermia , nothing to grip on to to get yourself out etc . I worry about him especially because its something him and his mates would do without thinking . I told him if his pals are going to do sonething like this its his job to stop them not join in . It would be the end of me if anything happened to him or his sister . Im all up up chilhood shenanigans but stuff like this is just heartbreaking