Honestly don't know what's worse, finding out some devastating news about a family member or having to sit and wait to give the news to another family member who's going to be hit 1000x harder when they get back from work.. :/
Mal, we have had almost the same news. Found out the mother in law had a brain tumor, as well as cancer in her heart and lung last Wed and found out yesterday that there is feck all they can do...