I thought that story was going to end "......slid her panties down, couldn't f***ing beleive it, a massive pair of bollocks was staring me in the face !!" Lol
There's no such thing as mixed messages, imho the vast majority of men are awkward as f**k round women.......they try and cover up their discomfort by babbling shit or being crass.
If you are comfortable and plain speaking there can't be any mixed messages I always found.......if you thought the situation warranted it you said "are we going to take off and get a room" and it was a simple yes or no.......and if it was no, then it's no.
It's not personal, it just demanded a "fair enough" and if the person was good company you just carried on doing whatever you were doing (talking, having a drink or dinner or whatever) .........no ness for anyone to feel uncomfortable.
As for Weinstein, I fully sympathise with the bloke really.......he took advantage of people looking to take advantage of their own sexuality and who were happy to be taken advantage of.......they got stardom which they wanted and he got a blow job and a hit movie.......everyone's a winner.
You don't all of a sudden grow a moral sense of outrage 20 years after the event.......that's bollocks and everyone knows it's bollocks.